自信需要自我提升，下面幾個(gè)小貼士，各位MM接好了：

　　Make eye contact /保持目光接觸

　　As well as smiling, meet the eyes of other people in the room. Give them your smile; you’ll almost certainly get one back, and being smiled at is a great self-confidence boost. Like smiling, eye contact shows people that you’re confident. Staring at your shoes or at the table reinforces your feelings of self-doubt and shyness. This tip is particularly useful for work-related situations – make eye contact with interviewers, or with the audience for your presentation:

　　Eye contact helps take the fear away from the speaker by getting the audience closer to him. Stress is mainly a result of being with the unknown and uncontrollable. Eye contact gives the speaker a picture of the reality that is the audience. It also helps in getting the attention of the audience.

　　像保持微笑一樣，也要保持與室內(nèi)每個(gè)人都有目光接觸。要先對(duì)他人微笑，這樣至少會(huì)有一人回應(yīng)你的微笑，這樣的回應(yīng)就會(huì)大大激 發(fā)你的自信。微笑與目光接觸都同樣表明你非常自信。相反，一味地盯著自己的鞋子或桌腳則會(huì)讓你顯得更加猶豫不決甚至羞于開(kāi)口。這一條建議在工作場(chǎng)合相當(dāng)實(shí) 用--求職者要與面試官保持目光接觸，演講者則要與你的聽(tīng)眾保持目光接觸。

如何提升自信

　　保持目光接觸可以拉近聽(tīng)眾與演講者之間的距離從而使其擺脫緊張及恐懼。而緊張及恐懼則往往是由于演講者面對(duì)素不相識(shí)之人或無(wú)法掌控之勢(shì)而產(chǎn)生的。目光的接觸則可以為演講者提供真實(shí)的情形--那就是聽(tīng)眾。同時(shí)，目光的接觸還有益于吸引觀眾注意力。

　　Find the next step/步步為營(yíng)

　　Keep your self-confidence up by taking gradual steps forwards, rather than freezing when faced with what seems like a giant leap. If you’re not sure what to do, look for one simple step that you can take to make progress. That might mean making eye contact at a party, introducing yourself to a stranger, breaking the ice in a meeting, or asking a question of your interviewers that shows your knowledge of their industry and company.

　　Start taking action even if you don’t have a clear idea of what needs to be done. Start moving towards your goal. Make corrections later.

　　步步為營(yíng)來(lái)增強(qiáng)自信要遠(yuǎn)勝于飛躍時(shí)期的停滯不前。如果所處情況讓你無(wú)所適從，不妨從簡(jiǎn)單做起--可能是聚會(huì)上與別人一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的眼神接觸、把自己介紹給一個(gè)陌生人、打破會(huì)議僵局，或者是問(wèn)面試官一個(gè)能夠顯示你了解他們行業(yè)及公司問(wèn)題。

　　在茫然無(wú)措之時(shí)就開(kāi)始有所行動(dòng)，開(kāi)始朝著自己的目標(biāo)前進(jìn)，即使有錯(cuò)，以后更正也不晚。

　　Make the most of your appearance / 注重儀表

　　Even if you’ve only got a minute or two, duck into the bathroom to make sure you’re looking your best. Brushing your hair, giving your face a good wash, retouching your makeup, straightening your collar, checking you’ve not got a bit of parsley stuck between your teeth … all of these can make the difference between feeling confident in your physical appearance and feeling anxious about an imagined flaw.

　　Perfect your physical appearance: There’s no denying that one’s grooming plays a crucial role in building confidence. Although we know what’s on the inside is what truly counts, your physical appearance will be the first to create an impression.

　　哪怕只有一兩分鐘的時(shí)間，也要沖進(jìn)盥洗室里進(jìn)行梳妝，以確保自己儀表最佳。梳梳頭、洗洗臉、補(bǔ)補(bǔ)妝、拉拉衣領(lǐng)，檢查一下是否有香芹殘存在自己的牙縫中......這些簡(jiǎn)單動(dòng)作都將消除我們對(duì)臆想缺陷的憂慮，而使自己在衣著容貌上看起來(lái)更加自信。

　　優(yōu)化儀態(tài)儀表：毫無(wú)疑問(wèn)，衣著打扮在建立自信的過(guò)程中起著決定性作用。盡管人人都知道內(nèi)在美是至關(guān)重要的，但是也無(wú)可否認(rèn)外在衣著打扮是第一印象的決定因素。

　　Contribute something/積極主動(dòng)開(kāi)口

　　Have you ever sat through an entire class at college or meeting at work without saying a word? Have you had an evening out where friends chatted happily while you sat and stared silently at your drink? Chances are, you weren’t feeling very self-confident at the time – and you probably felt even worse afterwards. Whatever the situation you’re in, make an effort to contribute. Even if you don’t think you have much to say, your thoughts and perspective are valuable to those around you.

　　By making an effort to speak up at least once in every group discussion, you’ll become a better public speaker, more confident in your own thoughts, and recognized as a leader by your peers.

　　你是否曾經(jīng)在大學(xué)課堂或者工作會(huì)議上干坐著一言不發(fā)?你是否曾經(jīng)在朋友晚上聚會(huì)興高采烈的時(shí)刻而獨(dú)自盯著自己的飲料發(fā)呆?肯定有，那時(shí)那地，你感覺(jué)到非常 不自信--甚至事后會(huì)感覺(jué)更糟。從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始，不管處于哪種場(chǎng)合，試著主動(dòng)一些吧。即使你覺(jué)得自己無(wú)話可說(shuō)，但是說(shuō)出來(lái)，你的觀點(diǎn)與看法將使你周圍的人獲益 匪淺呢。

　　如果每次小組討論之時(shí)至少有一次能夠大聲表達(dá)自己的觀點(diǎn)，那么你就會(huì)成為一個(gè)好的公眾演說(shuō)家，你的自信也會(huì)因此而增加，同時(shí)也會(huì)被你的同儕尊為團(tuán)隊(duì)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)。

　　相關(guān)閱讀：Increasing Confidence增強(qiáng)你的自信心

　　by Robert Stuberg

　　The world is changing rapidly and most people are very anxious about it. In fact, I think it mighteven be stronger and more accurate to say that most people are downright fearful of whatthey see going on around them.

　　Technological change and innovation are completely altering many aspects of our lives and itdoesn’t stop there. Economic changes, social changes, scientific changes, political changes…the list is endless. However, the big question we all face is how are we going to respond tothese changes?

　　While the specific answers about what to do take time and thought to uncover, the best wayto approach the future and all of the changes it will bring can be summed up in one word:Confidence.

　　Personal confidence is one of the greatest assets we all possess. Certainly some people seemto have much more of it than others but I believe that confidence is a skill that we can alldevelop. In some ways, it is undoubtedly the most important skill we can develop.

　　With confidence, all things are within the realm of possibility. Without confidence, even thesmallest challenges seem insurmountable.

　　What I find fascinating is that people with confidence always seem to end up on top. Theyseem to overcome the obstacles that stand in their way. It’s as if problems and challenges runfrom the person who has confidence.

　　I think what’s so difficult for most people is the belief that confidence has to be based onhaving a specific solution at hand but that’s just not true.

　　What we all respect and admire is the person who can stand up against overwhelmingdifficulties and persevere without an answer.

　　Here’s the secret that most people never get. Life’s challenges are no match for the person withunstoppable confidence. While the problems or challenges might seem too big to beovercome, the person with confidence always finds a way to win regardless of thecircumstances.

　　Ultimately, life’s challenges run and hide from the person that maintains confidence.

　　This is hard lesson to learn. The problems of life seem so big and scary and we often think ofourselves as so small and fragile. But that’s not the way it is. That’s the illusion that mostpeople by into, but it’s not the truth.

　　The truth is that we are bigger than anything that can ever happen to us in life. We have thepower and ability to overcome any obstacle in our path. And the most important tool wepossess is personal confidence, believing in your ability to overcome the current challengejust like we have done so many times in the past.

　　Whatever challenge is currently in your life, know that it’s there to help you grow and expand.Use the problems you encounter to help you build your personal confidence. Remember, youwouldn’t have the problem if you didn’t have the power to overcome it. Expanding yourpersonal confidence will allow you to take on whatever you need to in order to fulfill yourpersonal mission.